Haiz...It happens again

Sometimes it can be very disheartening to hear pple making comments that I am so cold blooded, I buy luxury items for my own son and toys for him... My money I rather splurge than lend it to SOMEONE in need



I shld lend out money to those in need?...but the thing is, do they actually know what happened exactly that caused me to be so extreme and firm in not lending?


If a working person need to borrow money consistently to have his 3 meals at work, something is terribly wrong!


The worst is the food bought are not cheap at all when there are cheaper alternative! Starbucks coffee to Toastbox Breakfast!


Given the pay and amount he is earning, he have more than enough money to eat, to spend to buy things he need.. but the whole thing is he chose to gamble all his salary away in 4D, Toto and mayb casino (who knows)


So why shld i be such a kind hearted idiot to lend money which will dragged and dragged else each month the cycle of borrowing and returning recurred?


pay day return me money, mid month borrow back again... Wah..endless cycle...


What I cannot stand is my own parent who choose to take side and start to find me very "ji jiao"...keep pestering pple to return me..give me faces when i go back...


HELOO....there was a promise to repay me ok... end up become month end return me..middle of month come ask me to lend him again...then month end return me...mid month borrow...


then my original sum owe was left hanging in mid air..coz unable to return..
So sick of all these nonsense and i am not sure issit they side him too much or didnt think about the root of the problem...
Still can tell me since he cannot cut down on 4D...can i cut down on my own personal indulgence like splurging for Raphael and lend him to eat
I told them NO WAY... why shld i be the one cutting down on my expenses and not him? my own hard earn money...it shld be spend happily on my end... i have the rights to splurge and buy watever i wan for my own darling!


Simply irritating...