Successful Vs Happy Vs Contented

There is this discussion among the Feb Mummies on Successful vs Happy.
What is my definition of them? Am I happy and contented on what I have now?
I would say Yes, I am happy and contented with what I have currently, with 2 healthy and lovely kids and a homely hubby...


To me after a long day of work and reaching home to be welcomed by the kids shouting mummy mummy...and each of them trying to catch my attention.


Raphael asking me "got buy curry pok for me?", Gabriel stretcing out his hands and want me to carry. This is contentment.
I may not be successful in career, but at least i am earning a decent amount, able to have some forms of luxury, and spare cash.
I used to be someone with less than $100 in bank after clearing all bills and insurance...


I used to spree and shop and buy till my bank $$ runs seriously low and at times need to borrow some from Ben till pay day...
Those were the days...


What do I want my kids to be in years to come? What can I give to them?
All parents want their kids to be happy and be a useful person when they grow up. So in this case, I will try to give them enrichment classes within my budget


Kindermusic, Julia Gabriel, I caN read for Raphael..


Still pending to start class for Gabriel...


Pending Taekwondo class for Phael...

How.....Benji, are we successful? Happy and contented?

#2 Top in Month of Feb 2012

HEhehee.... its a very interesting game i called it.... usually i dun really care which position i am but curious to know my standings in the top recruiter for each month...


Aiya... .this month the #1 recruited 12 members...i am way behind appx 8members but yet got a #2... not bad too..


I have this big inspiration to be #1 for year 2012!!! coz as long as i am constantly #2 or in top 10... i shld be able to be the #1 as normally those #1 are only one off then no more.. hahahaaa

fighting an endless game!

Oh Ya, March I was in #9 position...sliding game

Top #4 Recruiter in Singapore for Year 2011

Yeah! Although no monetary value involved but when I hear that we are #4 in position together with keith in #8 and Valerie in #10, cannot help but feel proud!!!


Its not an achievement with $$ rewards but I am happy! Was also the Top #2 recruiter for month of Jan 2012!!!!!! Wasted, nearly become #1 again... will work harder to achieve more!!! :)

Gearing up for Genting Trip

Well....We  have a Genting date in April and its fully paid by Benji Daddy!!! We be going together with the Phay family and it must be a filled with fun gathering!

Must visit the theme park to let the kids play... and also NUA NUA NUA... Maybe will try my luck in Casino...

First of all, started to gear up with beanies!!! this is to keep the kids warm...in case the wind is too big.... well... next is to check if the sweaters still can fit the kids :)